Tag: Cancer Treatment

Day 5,522 – Urologist Appointment

On By DanIn Hormone Therapy, imaging, Prostate Cancer, Treatment9 Comments

Late last week, I received a text message asking if I would like to move my urologist appointment from 30 December to today, 23 December, and I agreed.

My appointment was at 3:15 p.m., and I arrived around 2:45 p.m. As I’m walking up to the check-in kiosk, my cell phone rings, and it was the urology department wanting to confirm that I’d be there. That’s the first time that that’s happened, and I told the nurse that I was checking in as we spoke. “Great! We’ll come out and get you.” Apparently, they were antsy to get out of there early on the day before Christmas Eve. So was I.

The head of the department was the one who saw me this time, and we had a really good conversation. Some of the key takeaways:

  • She was concerned about the increase in my PSA but not panicked, even initially suggesting we just continue to monitor it.
  • We talked at length about doing another round of imaging to see if we can determine the location of the cancer.
  • We agreed to do another PSMA PET scan, and we negotiated doing one in March 2026. (She thought that Nuclear Medicine might push back on doing one sooner, i.e., within a year, as the last one I had was in March 2025.) She also mentioned the possibilities of other imaging should the PSMA PET scan come up with no evidence of cancer/metastasis for the fourth time.
  • We talked about the timing of starting androgen deprivation (hormone) therapy. She wouldn’t start it until there was evidence of metastasis, but was open to starting it earlier if I really wanted to do so.
  • Lastly, we reviewed my stress incontinence and nocturia issues and talked about my pelvic floor physical therapy.

It was one of the more thorough discussions that I’ve had at the VA, and I’m okay with the plan coming out of the meeting. I’ll go for another PSA test on 1 March; hopefully get the PSMA PET scan scheduled in early March; and have a follow-up with the urologist on 24 March.

I’m glad I got this out of the way before the holiday. I’ve got my answers, plus it frees up next week for me to go out an play if I want.

Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and be well!

Header image: Hotel del Coronado at Christmas, Coronado, California

Fourteen Years

On By DanIn Emotional Aspects, Prostate Cancer, Side Effects7 Comments

Yep. It really has been fourteen years that I’ve been on this adventure. That’s a good thing considering that too many men don’t make it this far after their diagnosis. Of course, it would be better if none of us ever had to go down this path in the first place, but these are the cards that we’ve been dealt and we’re forced to soldier on.

In the past, I’ve railed against people who said that prostate cancer is an “easy cancer.” My views on that may be evolving over time into it being an easier cancer. Even that may not be an accurate way of describing it.

The treatment for other common cancers can be much more aggressive, adversely impacting quality life in much harsher ways much earlier on than some of the initial treatments for prostate cancer. With prostate cancer, you may have a snip-snip here or a zap-zap there and you’re on your merry way for years with a few possible side effects. With other cancers, you may have surgery, radiation, and chemotherapy all coming right out of the gate and, in many cases, your chances of making it to five years are quite low (see five-year survival charts below).

However, with prostate cancer you can be on this ride for decades before you get to the harsher advanced treatments like hormone therapy and chemotherapy. In the interim, though, you’re dealing with the physical impacts of early treatment (incontinence, impotence, etc.), as well as the psychological and emotional stress associated with each new PSA test result every three to twelve months over those same decades. Over time, both of those impacts—the physical and emotional—take their toll.

Don’t get me wrong. I am thankful that, out of all the cancers out there, I had to get the one with one of the highest survival rates of all of them. I guess I just want folks to know that it’s still cancer, and it’s cancer that you have to deal with—in ways big and small—on a daily basis for decades.

It may be easier, but it isn’t easy.

Month 166 – Expanding My Audience

On By DanIn Prostate Cancer12 Comments

Between this prostate cancer blog and my travel blog, you’ve probably figured out that I enjoy the process of writing and sharing my experiences. While I’m no Pulitzer-prize winning author, a few people close to me have encouraged me to do something more formal—to “write a book.” I always thanked them for their compliment, and then gently set aside the notion of ever getting something published.

Until June.

Yes, I’ve been sitting on a little secret for almost three months. The editor of Cancer Health magazine came across my little ol’ blog and approached me to write an essay for their Voices column for their Fall 2024 issue of their magazine.

My initial reaction was one of surprise and intrigue and—if I’m being honest—a bit of anxiety. In the initial contact email, there wasn’t a ton of information about expectations, so I went to the website and looked at some of the archived Voices columns to see what might be involved. “Oh. I could do that.”

I went back to the editor and said, “I’m in.”

Prior to this, I had a vague understanding of the publishing process and knew that there would be some discussion about topics, length of the article, and deadlines. It would soon be followed by submitting drafts and digesting feedback. Also included in the exchange was a six-page contract covering usage rights and compensation.

I’m someone who’s better known for my spreadsheets than my writing, so when the editor read the final draft and said, “Wow… this one reads really great….Honestly, there’s very little I’d change in this…” I have to admit my chest puffed out a with a bit of pride.

After the magazine went live this week (hardcopy and online), I can now add “published author” to my résumé.

Is it a book? Nope. But we all start with baby steps, and a 500-word essay is my first step into the publishing world. Is this the beginning of something larger? Who knows. I enjoyed the whole process, and the editor did encourage future submissions. In the meantime, I’ll stick to self-publishing on my little ol’ blogs for now.

You may read the article here:

How to Navigate Conflicting Cancer Treatment Advice

Header Image: August Moonrise over San Diego, California skyline